willfs
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To answer one of your concerns: I dated a girl who told me of her sexual past. I remember even remarking outloud (or if I didn't it felt like I did) how much it stung to hear her say she had had sex with her most recent boyfriend. It eventually went away. It stopped bothering me. That's not to say you will. It was only my experience with this one woman. If I find out the next woman I date isn't a virgin I don't think it will bother me that much, but it might. I have gone on dates and dated woman who have kids and were married so it doesn't hurt me as much anymore I guess.
On the other hand, and to deal with your question on guys being more sensitive to their girlfriends past sex life (than vice versa), a married friend told me how, after sex, his wife would cry. He eventually asked her why she cried. She said it was because she realized how she wasn't the first to experience that with him. Remembering this makes me sad. It might even bring up sad feelings when, if I get married to someone who is "experienced", I will feel sad that I am not the first person she has done this with. (and vice versa for her BTW) But maybe not.
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